The Prompt:
Tell us about Grandpa.
My grandfather was a mechanic before he retired. He would always fix my car whenever I had a problem with it. When my radiator blew up, he lent me the money to get it fixed. After I sent last check, paying him back, he sent me a card, thanking me. He said that out of the seven grandchildren that had borrowed money from him in the past, I am the first one to ever pay him back.
My grandfather was an avid fisherman. The whole family would go camping in the mountains each summer. While the children played, the aunts sunbathed, and the uncles drank and played cards, my grandfather would spend the entire day on the boat in the lake, fishing. He would come back to the campsite in the afternoon with a string of trout, and at night we would have fish frys. The trout was fresh and delicious, the fire was warm, and the stories were flowing like wine.
My grandfather was a lovable playmate. Not afraid to wrestle with me on the floor after a hard day at work, always willing to play catch in the backyard or watch me dance like a ballerina, always calling me Shorty, even though I was nearly as tall as him by the time I was 7 years old.
I remember all of this about my grandfather. He remembers none of it; he's been suffering from dementia for several years now. It is very rare that I go to visit him anymore. I want my last memories of him to be the ones I had when I was 4.
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8 comments:
Awww, what nice memories!
I am so sorry that these wonderful times cannot continue. Dementia is such a hard thing, for both the victim as well as the family. Keep those memories alive. They are very special!
i've been out of touch for a week and so this comment is to cover all the posts i missed. all the EXCELLENT, extremely well written, insightful, entertaining, and just all around awesome to read posts.
thanks for the chuckles, and nostalgia ...
My grandmother has Alzheimer's and I help take care of her fairly often. It's hard to see her that way. I wish my memories were dominated by shopping trips when I was in high school and both of us obsessing over Patrick Swayze when we went to see Dirty Dancing.
I definitely get where you're coming from.
He sounds incredible....it must be tough to have to see him in a new way...it just doesn't seem fair.
Visit him anyway.
My grandma had dementia, not alzheimers--at least that's what the doctors said. She didn't remember me. I lived with her until I was 5 and slept in her bed with her at night. She only remembered stuff from the past.
I could share that with her--and did whenever I was able to make it to the state where she lived.
When she died, I really wished that I had been able to spend more time with her. Would it have made a difference? Not to her memory, but to mine. And those wonderful grandparents took care of us when we were unable to take care of ourselves.
They deserve it.
It's hard, I know. But this is also part of life.
Go.
I love this post and think that I will try a Writer's Workshop prompt myself. My grandmother suffered from Dementia and it was so hard on us. It would take me a whole day to list the amazing things that she taught me. Thanks for sharing and stopping by my spot from SITS. I will be back!
I love this post and think that I will try a Writer's Workshop prompt myself. My grandmother suffered from Dementia and it was so hard on us. It would take me a whole day to list the amazing things that she taught me. Thanks for sharing and stopping by my spot from SITS. I will be back!
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